Erotic massage in London, sensual, tantric, B2B and nuru compared

The four main styles

Erotic massage in London usually means one of four styles, sensual, tantric, body to body or nuru, and the main differences are pace, contact and atmosphere. All of them use touch to relax the body and bring on a feeling of intimacy, in contrast to a clinical massage, which aims to treat a muscle or an injury.

The words overlap, and different people use them in different ways, so treat these descriptions as a general guide. On a profile, each lady will describe things in her own way, and how she works may not match a textbook definition. It is also worth saying that an erotic massage is not a medical treatment. If you have a bad back or a sports injury, a registered physiotherapist or massage therapist is the right person to see.

Sensual massage

Sensual massage is the gentlest introduction. It uses hands and warm oil, with long, flowing strokes and a focus on atmosphere. Lighting, music and the temperature of the room play a large part. You usually stay relaxed, and it is a good place to begin if you have never had anything like this before, or if you are mainly looking to switch off after a long week.

Since it is the broadest term, it can mean very different things to different people. Our erotic massage page shows ladies who mention it, and a lady's profile will often give you a good idea of her approach. Expect a slower pace and a lot of attention to detail rather than anything acrobatic.

Tantric massage

Tantric massage is the most deliberate of the four. It draws loosely on the Indian tradition of Tantra, with breathing exercises, eye contact and a long, slow build up. People who enjoy it often talk about becoming more aware of their own body, and it tends to take longer than other styles. A session of less than an hour can feel rushed, and many people prefer more than that.

Some of the claims made for it are rather grand. It is a pleasant, meditative experience for many people, but not a cure for anything. Our full guide to tantric massage goes into more detail, including how to tell a thoughtful practitioner from one who has just picked up the word.

Body to body massage

Body to body massage, also known as B2B, is exactly what it sounds like. The masseuse uses her body as well as her hands, gliding over yours with warm oil. It has a more direct and playful feel than tantric massage, and it is the style most people have in mind when they talk about erotic massage in London. A little more skill is involved than people realise, since balance and pressure both matter.

You will need a surface that can handle some oil, and it is wise to have towels you do not mind spoiling. Our guide to body to body massage covers all of this, including how it is set up at a hotel.

Nuru massage

Nuru massage is the most specialised. It comes from Japan, where nuru means smooth or slippery, and it uses a clear, odourless gel usually made with seaweed. The gel is far slicker than oil, and it is usually applied on a waterproof mat. So nuru tends to involve more preparation, and it is the least suited to a spur of the moment booking at a standard hotel room.

If you love the idea of body to body massage and want something more unusual, it may be for you. Read our nuru guide first, because it depends so much on the room.

Choosing what suits you

A simple way to choose is to think about how you would like to feel. If you want to relax and be looked after, go for sensual. If you enjoy slowness and meditation, try tantric. If you want something more playful and intimate, body to body is a good bet. If you are curious and do not mind the extra setup, nuru is the most distinctive.

Also consider where you will be. Incalls, which start from £200, mean the lady's own space is already set up to her liking. Outcalls, which start from £200, are convenient, but your hotel room or flat needs to be warm, private and have a shower. You can look for ladies by London area or see who is nearby.

Be clear about what a booking is. Rates pay for an escort's time and companionship, and listing a massage style does not mean any specific activity or finish is promised. Each lady decides what she is comfortable with, and she can say no at any time. It is also worth saying that massage oil can weaken latex condoms, so if you and she decide to go further, use condoms that are compatible, wash off any oil first, and consider a check up at an NHS sexual health service if you see new partners. For the booking itself, call us with her name and a time. We check she is free, confirm the price and arrange the rest.