Dating Apps in the UK

The main options

The main dating apps in the UK are Hinge, Tinder and Bumble, and the best one for you depends on what you are looking for. All are for adults only, and apps change their features and prices often, so have a quick look before you pay for anything.

Hinge describes itself as designed for people who want a relationship. Tinder is the biggest name and a good all rounder. Bumble is known for giving women more control over how a conversation begins. Feeld is aimed at people curious about open relationships and other non-traditional set ups, and Grindr and Her serve the LGBTQ+ community. Older services such as Match and eHarmony tend to appeal to people looking for long term commitment.

Making a good start

Use a few recent, clear pictures that actually look like you. Write a few honest lines that give someone a reason to reply, and open with a question about something on their profile, as it beats a plain hello every time. Our guide on flirting respectfully has more ideas.

Staying safe

Be careful about moving away from the app too soon, as its reporting tools no longer protect you once you do. Keep your address and work details to yourself until you know someone. Meet in a public place for the first time and tell a friend where you will be. Our first date tips go into this in more detail. Sending someone an unwanted sexual image is a criminal offence in England and Wales, so report it through the app, and to the police if you wish.

Spotting scams

Romance fraud is common. Warning signs include quick declarations of love, excuses for never meeting or video calling and, sooner or later, a request for money or an investment tip. Never send money to someone you have not met. If you think you have been targeted, contact your bank straight away and report it to Report Fraud, the UK's national fraud reporting service.

Some profiles also advertise paid services while pretending to be something else. If you are looking for an escort, it is simpler to go through a clear listing. Our escorts page leads to each lady's profile, including her rates and areas.