CIM meaning on profiles

What CIM means

CIM stands for come in mouth, which means ejaculation in the mouth. That is the whole definition, and it is about as much as anyone needs to say about it. On a profile, it belongs to the group of abbreviations describing how a lady feels about the end of oral sex, alongside COB, CIF and swallow.

You will sometimes see it listed separately from swallow. They are different things, and a lady may be fine with one and not the other, so it helps not to assume that one implies the other.

How it appears on a profile

Where you see CIM, it usually sits in a list of what a lady enjoys, and you can see who mentions it on our CIM page. Think of it as a note on her preferences, not as an item you can claim. An escort's rate pays for her time and companionship, and each lady decides what she is comfortable with.

Even a clear listing depends on how she feels on the day and how comfortable she is with you. Some ladies will only consider it with people they know well, and some will simply prefer not to on a given occasion. All of that is entirely reasonable.

Health points to know

Without a condom, this activity carries a risk of sexually transmitted infections. Gonorrhoea and chlamydia in the throat are often symptomless, and syphilis and herpes can also pass through oral contact. The risk may be lower than with some other activities, but it is not zero. A condom lowers it a great deal, and it is the safer choice for both people.

Be honest with yourself about your own health. If you have any symptoms, such as discharge or sores, or if you have recently been treated for an infection, do not go ahead, and see an NHS sexual health service or your GP. Regular testing is free and confidential if you are seeing new partners.

Consent, in practice

Consent has to be clear before anything happens, and it can be withdrawn at any time. It is never acceptable to spring this on someone in the moment, or to assume that because something seems to be going well, she will not mind. Doing something without agreement, or removing a condom without permission, is a serious matter and may be a crime.

If you are not sure, ask. And if you have asked and she has said no, leave it there. Asking twice is pressure, not conversation.

Raising it politely

The phone call is not the place. When you call us, just give her name and a time, and we check she is free, confirm the price and arrange the rest. Our team does not need any more detail than that.

When you have met and are relaxed, keep it simple and leave her an easy way out. For example, I noticed CIM on your profile, are you happy with that or would you rather not, is all it takes. Many ladies appreciate being asked plainly. It shows you see her as a person with her own preferences. For other terms you may come across, try our A to Z of escort terms.