MMF and FFM meaning

What the letters mean

MMF means a threesome with two men and one woman, while FFM means a threesome with two women and one man. Read each letter as a person, M for male and F for female. You may also see MFM and FMF, which sometimes suggest who is positioned in the middle, but they are generally used to mean the same thing.

Beyond that, the two arrangements are quite different in how they work in practice. The difference matters, because they tend to appeal for different reasons and involve different kinds of planning.

FFM and duo bookings

FFM is closest to what an escort agency calls a duo booking, which means meeting two ladies at the same time. You can see the pairings on our duo escorts page, with rates starting from £400. A pairing tends to work best when the two ladies get along, and that makes for a far more relaxed time.

You pay for the time and companionship of two people, and it is worth remembering that each of them makes her own decisions. A duo booking does not promise any particular activity between them or with you. The profile is the best guide to what each lady enjoys, and you can browse by duo interest too.

MMF and bringing a friend

MMF usually arises when two men want to book together, or when a male couple or a man and his friend would like to meet a lady. Ladies who are open to this may say so on their profile, and our MMF page lists those who do. Many ladies will not consider it, and it is easy to see why. Being outnumbered changes how safe and in control someone feels, so a lot depends on trust.

This means you must be upfront. Mention that there are two of you when you call, and be ready to give the lady a choice. Never arrive with an extra person who has not been agreed in advance. That is a serious breach of trust, and she has every right to end the booking. The price depends on the booking, and we will confirm it when you call.

Consent, health and hygiene

With three adults involved, everyone needs to be fully willing, and anyone can stop at any time. Friends can feel pressured by each other, too, so it is worth checking that you are all truly keen. Being sober enough to make your own decisions matters here more than usual.

Use a fresh condom for each partner and each activity, and never share one or swap without changing it. Wash any toys between uses, or cover them with a new condom. Infections can pass between partners more easily when there are several people involved. If you are sexually active with new partners, regular check ups at an NHS sexual health service are free and confidential.

How to raise it politely

Be open and practical when you call. Tell us you would like a duo, or that two of you are hoping to meet a lady, and give us the name and a time. We check she is free, confirm the price and arrange the rest.

In person, you might say, this is new to me, so please tell me what you are comfortable with. Everyone tends to relax after that. If you are a couple looking to explore together, our guide to couples bookings will be more useful.