DFK meaning and FK

What DFK and FK mean

DFK stands for deep French kissing, which means open mouth kissing with plenty of tongue, and FK stands for French kissing, which usually means something lighter. In practice the line between them is fuzzy, and ladies use them in slightly different ways. FK tends to suggest gentle, affectionate kissing, while DFK suggests something more passionate.

Why would kissing need an abbreviation at all? Because for many people it is the most personal thing two people can do. Lots of ladies are happy to hold hands or sit close, and yet treat kissing on the mouth as a separate decision. There is an old idea, repeated in films, that escorts never kiss. That is not true across the board, but it does reflect how personal kissing can be.

How they appear on a profile

You will usually find these among the things a lady enjoys, and our pages for DFK and FK gather those who mention them. They often go hand in hand with the girlfriend experience, since it is hard to feel like a couple on a date without some affection.

Even so, it is not a given. A profile tells you what she is generally open to, not how she will feel on a particular evening. The rate covers her time and companionship, and each lady decides what she is comfortable with. She may kiss you warmly after an hour of good conversation, or she may not, and either is fine.

Hygiene really does matter here

This is the one term where your own preparation makes all the difference. Brush your teeth and use mouthwash shortly beforehand. Avoid strong food such as garlic, and skip the cigarette or the extra drink just before you meet. A clean shave, or a well kept beard, also helps, since stubble can be painful on someone else's skin.

Health is worth a moment's thought too. Most kissing is low risk, but cold sores spread easily through kissing, and they are most infectious when a sore is visible or tingling. If you have one, or feel one coming on, tell her and skip the kissing altogether. The same applies if you have a sore throat, an infection in your mouth or bleeding gums. Colds and other bugs can also pass this way, so if you are feeling ill, it is kinder to rebook. A doctor or pharmacist can advise you on anything specific.

Reading the signals

Kissing is the easiest thing to get wrong by rushing. Start gently and pay attention. If she moves closer and responds, that is one thing. If she turns her cheek or changes the subject, take the hint gracefully. No one should have to tell you no twice, and she can say no at any time.

Asking is not a mood killer, whatever people may tell you. A quiet, would you mind if I kissed you, is charming when it is said with a smile, and it gives her an easy way to answer.

Booking

None of this needs mentioning on the phone. Call us with her name and a time, and we check she is free, confirm the price and arrange the rest. If you would like to understand the other terms you see on profiles, read our A to Z of escort terms.