OWO meaning

What OWO stands for

OWO stands for oral without a condom, meaning oral sex performed with no barrier. It is one of the oldest abbreviations on escort sites, dating back to the message boards where most of this shorthand began. Its opposite is OWC, oral with a condom, and you may also come across the older BBBJ, which covers the same ground as OWO.

There is one thing the initials do not tell you, which is that this activity is only ever something the lady herself chooses. A term on a profile is not a service you have paid for, and an escort's rate covers her time and companionship.

How it appears on a profile

On a profile, OWO usually sits in the list of what a lady enjoys. You can see the ladies who mention it on our OWO page, though a mention is only the beginning. It tells you that she may be open to it with someone she feels comfortable with, not that it will happen at every meeting.

She may have her own conditions, and these can depend on the day and on how things feel between you. That is entirely her call. If a profile does not list OWO, assume it is not for her and do not try to change her mind. Offering more money for something she has declined is disrespectful, and it is not how we want anyone treated.

The health side

Oral sex without a barrier is usually thought to carry lower risk than some other activities, but it is not risk free. Infections such as gonorrhoea, chlamydia, syphilis and herpes can pass through oral contact, and some have no obvious symptoms. Using a condom lowers the risk considerably, and it is a perfectly normal thing to prefer.

Practical habits help too. Wash thoroughly beforehand. Do not go ahead if you have sores, a rash or unusual discharge, and tell her honestly if you have any concerns. If you are sexually active with new partners, regular screening at an NHS sexual health service is free and confidential, and a doctor or nurse is the best person to ask about your own situation.

Consent and limits

Consent is ongoing. She can stop at any time, and she can decide she would rather use a condom even if her profile says otherwise. The same applies to you. You are free to ask for a condom, and any good escort will respect that without a second thought. If one of you changes your mind, the right response is to carry on with something you both enjoy, or simply talk.

How to raise it politely

Do not bring this up on the phone. When you call us, all we need is her name and a time, and we check she is free, confirm the price and arrange the rest. Questions about intimate preferences are better left for when you have met and are both at ease.

When the moment seems right, ask in plain and friendly language. Something like, I saw OWO on your profile, is that something you are happy with today, leaves her free to answer either way. Then accept the answer warmly. For the wider vocabulary, see our A to Z of escort terms.